Not Everyone is Meant to be in a Relationship

As lacking in compassion as it may sound, I believe that not everyone is emotionally equipped to be in a loving, happy relationship. I am not talking about romantic, sexually charged, fantasy escapades. They're great and life would be dull without them. I am talking about a relationship that stands the test of time.

In my books, The Dirty Seven: Ladies Beware and Booby Trapped: Men Beware the Dirty Seven Sisters, I point out dead-enders on the dating scene. They do not have what it takes to sustain a happy, fulfilling relationship. They may look and behave all right on a date and even during the fantasy stage of the courting ritual, but after that: LOOK OUT!

You will more than pay for the pleasure of their company with hours of regret as well as much cash.

I realize this is not what some people want to hear. They would rather create a dream than face up to the fact that not everyone is meant to be a life partner; just as not everyone is meant to be a parent.

The problem is compounded when one of the Dirty Sevens becomes a parent. So the subject is not as light as we might think.

The subject of dating and relationships seems light until we see how many lives have been set back or ruined because of an unwise choice of a mate.

Lil Mama and Her Boyz

Time for some fun before the year is over! Yeah, rapping away in Gizmoz' animated movie is my way of ending 2007 in style, together with my boyz, Steve and Andy. Wouldn't you say so?

I know, I know. I've been a BAD girl this year with this site ... blog ... vlog? Will 2008 bring me inspiration? I certainly hope and wish it did for you. Here is to a happy, healthy, and fun New Year for you, filled with love!